tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2309175921973697831.post5497779238596374087..comments2024-03-03T17:05:31.638-08:00Comments on BoggyWoggy's Cache: Thoughts Survey...BoggyWoggyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18348136811460735652noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2309175921973697831.post-55964925255421602822007-05-21T21:25:00.000-07:002007-05-21T21:25:00.000-07:00Ah-ha...a union meeting tonight revealed that this...Ah-ha...a union meeting tonight revealed that this principal has done this to SEVERAL folks! People have been too embarassed to admit it to their colleagues...but, this afternoon, the tears started flowing. It seems the "many others had said x-y-z" about you," is a crock. <BR/>I'm so ready for her to leave. I'm sorry for sounding negative...but, if you had to work with this person for 2 years, you, too, would feel pretty negative.BoggyWoggyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18348136811460735652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2309175921973697831.post-72106276479215855692007-05-21T00:16:00.000-07:002007-05-21T00:16:00.000-07:00I agree that it is really hard to defend yourself ...I agree that it is really hard to defend yourself against faceless accusers but I don't think the Principal could reveal the identities. But it is important for the Principal to realise there are 2 sides of every story and he/she ought to have given your colleague a chance to put her side across.Stomper Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04038937073264645029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2309175921973697831.post-40602429750458482832007-05-19T12:07:00.000-07:002007-05-19T12:07:00.000-07:00Will you be my executer? Woggy will understand tha...Will you be my executer? Woggy will understand that one.<BR/>Vita thanks for your tireless efforts on saving the world from bad grammer : )<BR/>Ima go now.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05836668234049845461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2309175921973697831.post-28868982867215086232007-05-19T11:56:00.000-07:002007-05-19T11:56:00.000-07:00Woggy, I think Carni means "negligent" instead of ...Woggy, I think Carni means "negligent" instead of negligable. Don't you?Vitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05648727808256233855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2309175921973697831.post-36714910247774323862007-05-19T07:58:00.000-07:002007-05-19T07:58:00.000-07:00Should a principal/boss/supervisor be allowed to s...Should a principal/boss/supervisor be allowed to say to you, "Others have come to tell me ____ about you," but not have to reveal whom those "others" are? Along with your "yes" or "no" answer, please give an explanation. <BR/><BR/>Hard to say. My first thought is Yes. Because, if it is true, the person needs to know. However the people talking about the "negative one" needs to understand that their comments are being taken seriously and if they are having this much difficulty with another staff member, so much so they can't handle it on their own. They will need to have a safe mediated meeting with the accusers, the accused and with a knowledgeable mediator. If the principal actually heard these comments and didn't follow up on them, that's negligible. How to follow up is where your particular principal is dropping the ball. <BR/>BUT... if she just has an axe to grind and she's just making stuff up, there's no one to mediate with but herself and the accused....follow?<BR/>Sorry to hear your friend went through that humiliating experience.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05836668234049845461noreply@blogger.com